torque is easier reached with lubrication.The problem with lubricating threads arises when you apply a non-lubricated torque to lubricated threads.
The nuts/bolts aren't suddenly going to fly off if you lubricate the threads - in fact, if you put 100 lb/ft into a lubricated thread vs a non lubed thread (depending on lubricant) you could end up with the same axial load as if you had torqued the dry thread to 140/170 lb/ft - this is because less torque is required to put the same load on.
The main thing with wheel nuts/studs is ensuring the threads are clean and free from any rust/dirt etc.
Some of the posts in this thread hurt my brain.
Remember way back when it used to be about some guy that couldn’t undo his wheel nuts or something? lol